Frequently Asked Questions About Group Counseling

Many people assumed that being a psychologist and counselor meant that I always dealt with heavy or boring stuff. I could not blame them for thinking that way, considering my job description technically included helping my clients identify their mental disorders and guide them away from them safely. However, they did not know that having such a mentally and emotionally taxing job meant that I had to get a little R&R as often as I could.

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Ever since I was in college, I had been a part of a group of psychologists who would meet four times a year to do something fun and meaningful. For instance, when we went hiking and planting on a mountain, there was a time that illegal loggers and campers left with more trash than trees. Then, we would set up clean-up drives at the beach, donations for orphanages and charities, and even marathons for a cause.

Nevertheless, the most memorable ones were the group counseling sessions that we would provide in remote or impoverished communities. In those places, people had never even seen a psychologist or counselor. Some of them might have known deep inside that they needed mental help, but they did not have a way to ask for it.

Our process was to coordinate with the leaders, administrators, or local government units at least a couple of months before our trip. We would ask them to let their people know about our intentions and that there would be booths for different issues, such as depression, anxiety, grief, stress, etc. There was never a community that declined our offer, so we were happy about that. We eventually ventured out to international regions, prisons, and other areas that needed mental help the most.

1. How do you conduct a group counseling session? 

 The most important thing to do if you want to conduct a group counseling session is to figure out why you are all there in the first place. For instance, is it to overcome addiction, anxiety, depression, etc.? Is it because you want to overcome grief? Then, you should also figure out how it can be achieved.

When the goals and approaches are decided upon, find out every patient’s strengths to know who needs more assistance than others. Furthermore, the counselor should come up with challenges that everyone can benefit from. That’s the only way to ensure that the patients are progressing well.

2. What are some therapeutic activities? 

One of the things that therapists do is ask the patient beforehand regarding their favorite music or genre, and then they play it in the background during the session. It is supposed to make the patient comfortable effortlessly.

In case they seem to have issues with meeting new people, you may stick to one-on-one therapy. Some may even bring in an emotional support animal to assist the patient further.

Of course, exercising is recommended by therapists as a therapeutic activity. The only way it can stress you out is if it’s all you do and overexert yourself.

3. What is group counseling? 

 Group counseling is a form of counseling in which various people with similar issues meet to heal.

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4. What are the roles and responsibilities of the Counsellor in group work? 

 One of the responsibilities of a counselor in group work is getting rid of someone’s apprehension. In reality, many people who agree to join a group counseling session have doubts about its helpfulness. If the counselor can remove their doubts, the session will flow smoothly.

The counselor should also be clear about the group and individual goals. It may not always be apparent initially, but the patients may talk about them when they are no longer apprehensive about the treatment.

Then, you also need to create rules that are specific to one group. The session cannot start without everyone agreeing on it. If there’s a rule that any of them doesn’t like, you should look for an alternative that’s ideal for all.

Moreover, the counselor needs to ensure that the patients interact positively with each other. Being civil does not cut, especially since they are all trying to improve their mental health, and they need to rely on one another throughout counseling.

5. What are the duties and responsibilities of a counselor? 

Counselors have a broad range of duties and responsibilities. However, the most common ones include:

  • Helping individuals deal with addiction and mild mental disorders
  • Informing patients about genetic disorders
  • Offering support to people with severe illnesses and their loved ones

6. What is the role of a group leader in counseling? 

 The group leader is not only supposed to facilitate during counseling; they are also expected to keep everyone positive and respectful to each other. 

7. What are the advantages of group counseling? 

 The primary advantage of group counseling is that you will never be lonely while trying to face your problems and deal with them. This is why it is recommended to people with depression and other mental disorders with depressive symptoms.

Group counseling also guarantees that you have more than one sounding board, not just the therapist. When you talk about your problems, everyone can pitch in and offer moral and emotional support. If you are lucky, they may even become your friends for life.

Some psychologists also suggest group counseling to folks with anxiety as it is an excellent way to be around new people and overcome your fears.

8. What are the types of group Counselling? 

  • Psychotherapy Group: It is a type of talk therapy in which people learn how to be honest about their failures and celebrate their successes. It may be challenging to do either for people with mental health issues.
  • Cognitive Therapy Group: Like in regular cognitive-behavioral therapy, the therapist helps individuals assess what’s wrong with their way of thinking and help them change it. This way, their behavior can improve.
  • Dynamic Group Therapy: In this form of group counseling, the patients look for their common issues and figure out how they can resolve them. Experts claim that this cohesiveness can make them work better with each other.
  • Relapse Prevention Group: It is an after-care program that counselors suggest to recovering addicts. They teach the patients how to cope with their urges to try addictive substances and control their moods to avoid even thinking about it.
  • Mutual Self-Help Group: This group counseling type is often started by a person who had mental health issues in the past and looked for others with similar problems. One example of it is Alcoholics Anonymous.
  • Network Therapy: It is a type of group counseling that requires a recovering individual’s loved ones to share their journey with them. This is supposed to prevent the person from relapsing.
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9. What are the goals of group Counselling? 

  • Process Goals: These goals are connected to why you are doing group counseling. For instance, do you want to overcome addiction, stress, depression, anxiety, etc.?
  • Outcome Goals: These are the things you wish to achieve in life during or after group counseling. For instance, do you want to get a new job after sorting out your mental disorder?

10. What are some issues in group counseling? 

 The primary issue in group counseling is trust. Some people trust counselors and the system itself better than others. If the mental health professional is not quick to realize that one of the patients is not happy with their process, it may affect group counseling’s effectiveness.

An individual’s fears can also get in the way of group counseling success. If the counselor cannot handle or at least notice it early, group counseling will most likely become ineffective.

Furthermore, someone needs to be comfortable enough to talk about their issues in a group setting. The problem is that not everyone can feel that way after the first or second session. In case that does not happen, then there is no way for the counseling to work.

11. What are two types of group therapy? 

  • Psychoeducational Group Therapy: This type enables the therapist to treat their patients as students and educate them about their issues and the possible ways to resolve them. Thus, they can all act in a civilized manner and without being too friendly with each other.
  • ProcessOriented Group Therapy: In this group therapy type, the therapist takes the backseat and lets the patients direct how the session will go. They only step up if the conversation goes too off-topic. Otherwise, they blend in with the group and act as a facilitator.

12. What are the disadvantages of group Counselling? 

  • Lack of Comfortability: Just like in one-on-one counseling, you need to determine your comfortability level with the process and the people you do it with. If you do not feel awkward or too weirded out by them, you may continue with it. But if you are not comfortable at all, look for another group.
  • Lack of Trust: Trust is essential in any form of counseling. If the patient does not trust the counselor or the other people they do therapy with, it will not succeed.
  • Interpersonal Conflicts: Group counseling success gets jeopardized when patients with clashing personalities meet. Their opinions may always be the opposite, and they cannot find anything to agree upon.
  • Perceived Rejection: People who assume that the other patients or the counselor will reject them cannot find success in group counseling. Only when they get over that perceived rejection that the process may work.
  • Loss of Privacy: One of the biggest reasons people want to see a licensed counselor is to keep the sessions confidential. If they find themselves in a group setting, they may not achieve their privacy loss goals.
  • Social Phobia: People who fear talking in public may not benefit from group counseling as well. 

13. Can group therapy be harmful? 

 Yes, group therapy can technically be harmful, considering every group therapy is unique. If you end up doing a faulty program, you may come out worse than ever.

14. What happens in a group therapy session?

During a group therapy session, you will see one or two therapists in the room. The more patients attend the session; the more therapists will be there. Then, you may need to meet with them at least once a week.

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Remember that every group therapy is unique, which means that it only tackles one issue. For instance, if it is about overcoming a loved one’s loss, you cannot expect them to address your social anxiety, depression, and other issues. And at the beginning of the session, you will all agree upon shared goals while working on individual ones.

You are also expected to share as much as possible when you do therapy. Though you may feel shy at first, everyone will ideally help you get over it. This way, you can increase the success rate of the process.

Final Thoughts

Ten years later, my life is more hectic than ever. Apart from being a psychologist and counselor, I am also a wife, a mom of three kids, and a lifestyle blogger. I barely have time to do anything else, frankly speaking – not even shopping at the mall like I always did in the past. Despite that, I often make time for the group counseling activities that my friends and I conduct four times a year in different parts of the globe.

While I cannot always be out there with my friends, I help by making arrangements with the communities and finding out what other groups could bring to help them. Unfortunately, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, we had not been able to travel and provide group counseling to more people in person. We can offer online counseling, which is especially vital at this time but does not reach as many people as group counseling does. Still, with the vaccines rolling out slowly but surely, we are all optimistic that we can go out again to provide the latter to more communities.

Addressing Anxiety: Frequently Asked Questions

An individual dealing with anxiety often questions his mental and emotional state. There is too much worry and unexplained that sometimes gets accompanied by physical manifestations. These include experiencing chest pain, choking sensation, muscle sprain, difficulty breathing, having increased heart rate, nervousness, and trouble concentrating. To know more about anxiety, here are some of the answers to the frequently asked questions.

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What are the six major types of anxiety disorders?

The major types of anxiety are the following: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder, Specific Phobia, Agoraphobia, and Social Anxiety Disorder.

 

 What are the treatment options for anxiety disorders?

There are many therapy and medication options to treat anxiety. However, the leading approaches include exposure therapy and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). Each of these two anxiety therapies can be used alone or combined with other types of therapy. It is vital to note that it may take some trial and error to determine which of these treatments work best for you.

Though there might be a fit therapy that perhaps suits you, it would be best to accompany therapy with doctors’ prescribed medication. You should at least manage your symptoms once and for all and do not rely on one method for your entire life.

 How can you tell if a person has anxiety disorders?

You can quickly tell if an individual has anxiety disorder when there is a feeling of nervousness and restlessness. It can also be spotted when there’s an increased heart rate, trembling, sweating, hyperventilation, fatigue, trouble concentration, and constant worry.

But be mindful that signs and symptoms of anxiety vary on different individuals. There are instances that some of the warning signs are unnoticeable. If ever you want to know if a person is indeed experiencing an anxiety disorder, consult a medical professional and diagnose the condition. It is better to secure a diagnosis instead of sticking to an assumption. That way, the individual and the person around will know the proper way to adjust.

 What do you say to someone with anxiety?

There are things you should say to someone with anxiety. You must show encouragement. But you have to consider the person’s thoughts and feelings. Ask them what they need, how they currently feel, and what are the thoughts in their head. Offer support in a very accommodating way that they will not feel their feelings are invalid.

But in case you are not sure what to do, avoid complicating things by asking the person too many personal questions. It is safe to say that an anxious individual is often sensitive with his words, thoughts, and behavior. Also, note that not because they avoid social situations, it does not mean you need to go and insist on your presence. Allow the person to have some space for a while but still maintain your connection with him. Please do not assume that what he’s mentally going through is something you can easily understand. It will only make the person feel that his psychological condition is not something one should take seriously.

 How do you redirect anxiety?

You can redirect your anxiety through the following methods. Practicing mindfulness, labeling things, trying cognitive de-fusion, and focusing on direct experience. You can also broaden your view, stay in the present, get up and get going, and attempt cognitive distancing.

Yes, most of these are quite not easy to do, especially when dealing with a severe anxiety case. But it is significantly important that you take the initiative to work on your overall recovery. Thus, no matter how hard the process might be, you need to realize that redirecting your mental health condition is the safest way to wellness.

 Should I talk about my anxiety?

Yes, it would be healthy if you constantly considered talking to someone about your current situation. Talk to a family or friend about how you’re feeling and let them know the thoughts running in your head. At times you may share too much information, and that is okay. The important thing is that you express your feelings to someone you know you can trust can help you feel supported.

Understandably, the first attempt is always the hard part. But once you let those emotions out, you will surely feel better. If you want to cry, do it. Release your emotional burden by letting your loved ones know that you are not okay. If they care for you, they will be there to support you and stick with you through your most epic mental health battle.

 Is anxiety a mental illness?

You can consider anxiety as a mental health condition when it interferes with daily activities. Anxiety disorder is a serious medical condition that can make you avoid work, school, and self-care. In some instances, it makes you isolate yourself and avoid social situations due to the fear of experiencing its triggers.

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 What should you not say to someone with anxiety?

People with anxiety are often sensitive about their feelings and everything around them. You must be careful in your words. Thus, you should not tell them everything is going to be fine, they need to push through it, or they should calm down. Please do not say that they are only acting like this because it’s relevant to be anxious. These things will not only offend them but will make their anxiety even worse.

As an individual who does not have an issue with mental health, you need to be aware of others’ responsibility. Not because they are struggling with something you thought you knew, it does not give you the right to say things based on how much you can handle. Think about your words as something that can only make the situation more complicated.

 How do I ask for anxiety medication?

When asking your doctor for anxiety medication, there are guidelines you need to follow. First is you have to be direct and specific about what you are experiencing. If the doctor recommends a specific medication, be open about asking why they choose the medication. That way, you can be cautious about looking for possible side effects so you can avoid complications in the long run.

 

 What helps severe anxiety?

Severe anxiety is an entirely complicated condition. You must practice relaxation techniques regularly to put your mind and body in a balanced state. It would benefit if you worked on progressive muscle relaxation, mindfulness meditation, and deep breathing. You need to essentially focus on your emotional well-being so that it won’t trigger anxiety symptoms.

 

 What is a drug that calms you down?

One of the most recommended medications that experts often give to patients with anxiety is Benzodiazepines. However, drugs such as Klonopin, Xanax, Valium, and Ativan work quickly as well. Usually, they bring relief within 30 minutes to an hour after taking a recommended dosage.

 

 What is the best mood stabilizer for anxiety?

The best and most common mood stabilizers are Valproate, Lamotrigine, Lithium, and Antipsychotics.

 

 Does anxiety lead to bipolar?

In some complicated cases, anxiety leads to bipolar disorder. That is because the suffering from both mental health conditions has been associated with decreased functioning and quality of life. At times, there is an increased likelihood of a significant trigger for manic episodes, which somehow leads to substance abuse and suicide attempts.

 

 What medications do psychiatrists prescribe for anxiety? 

Most psychiatrists recommend Xanax, Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Lexapro, Ativan, and Desyrel for anxiety medication.

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Insight

Anxiety is a mental condition that you cannot just shrug off any time you want. Though there are some instances that its symptoms are not that severe, those warning signs can still take a toll on someone’s life. Sometimes, the mental condition slowly cripples a person, distract his concentration, make him lose control over his emotions and thoughts, etc. There is nothing entirely consistent with anxiety aside from the exaggerated fear that often comes from nothing in particular.

 

Mental Health Worries I Will Never Tell My Family About

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Ever since I graduated from university, I have been working as a freelance writer and editor. Mind you; that’s not what I earned a degree for. I got a Bachelor’s in Biology, which was supposed to be my pre-med degree, but I genuinely love writing and editing more than becoming a doctor. (Sorry, Mom.)

This news had not been taken lightly or fully supported by my family, of course. Almost every person in our clan worked in the medical field. In truth, we built a small hospital a few years ago, where my father had been serving as a chief administrator. My mother, on the other hand, headed the nursing department. They kept on saying that they could not wait for all of us to work together, so they felt betrayed when I changed my career path.

Well, I already apologized to my parents about not telling them the truth about my real dreams. I also wanted to show them that I made the correct choice, that I would not become a starving artist like many others. Thus, I took on one full-time job and three part-time jobs, moved out of my family’s home, and started living independently.

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Was it challenging? Yes, primarily since I was used to never needing to do household chores all my life — we had maids for that. But because I was living alone, I had to learn how to do everything, from vacuuming to washing dishes to doing the laundry. My parents knew my hardships, so they were encouraging me to come back and live with them. Although I felt tempted a bunch of times, I declined the offer because I wanted to prove that I could survive on freelance money.

Nevertheless, I never told my parents that I worried about things that sometimes kept me up at night. Below are some of them.

Running Out Of Clients

My primary fear is running out of people who want to get my services. If you are unaware of freelance jobs, it entails that most of my work does not have a contract to back me up. The clients could sack me anytime they pleased. While it rarely happened to me because I gave 110% of the effort to every job, no one could ever be sure when a better writer or editor would come along.

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That’s the reason why I felt the need to take on multiple clients at once. My friends said that I was already a workaholic for doing that, but they had stable jobs. They could not fathom what it’s like to work without signing an agreement first. I love what I do now, but it can honestly be bothering sometimes.

Not Having Enough Money For My Bills

The amount that I earned every month was not fixed. Sometimes, I could get up to $2000. Other times, I would be lucky to get $1500. Although it was not an insufficient income for a single woman who only ever needed to work from home, I had bills to pay like everyone else.

I ended up getting three roommates, so I reduced my house bills to 500 bucks. However, I still needed to pay for my internet, phone, and food monthly. The latter tend to cost at least 500 bucks alone, considering I could not be satisfied with a $1 burger from McDonald’s per meal. Because of that, I worried about not having enough money to pay for everything.

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Needing To Ask For Financial Help

In all fairness to my parents, they never wanted me to live in poverty. Even though they could not understand my decision to leave medicine, they always offered to help me financially. Dad said, “If you don’t want to come home, let us buy you a condo. We’ll even send homemade meals here every day if you like.”

What stops me from accepting their generosity is my pride. The reason is that I know my parents. They can be charming, but taking their offer is like me proving that they are right for claiming that my freelance career is doomed. Hence, I always think of ways to avoid asking for financial help from my family.

Living From One Paycheck To Another Again

I got to save several hundred bucks from every paycheck ever since I started freelancing. That’s especially true if I chose to go on a diet for a week or so. It allowed me to save enough money to take a few days off work without a problem sometimes.

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However, one of my greatest fears is living from paycheck to paycheck again. I experienced that the first time I moved out and had to foot all the bills for a month before I found roommates. I used up my savings back then and survived on instant noodles. I would never want to deal with the same thing in the future.

Final Thoughts

Some people may frown about my decision to lie to my family about my mental health worries, and I understand why. Despite that, I still have a lot to prove to them. Perhaps I will come clean about everything once my work becomes stable, and I never need to work for money another day. For now, it’s our little secret.

Choosing A Hobby That The Family Can Experience And Enjoy

 

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If you still don’t have fun hobbies that you can do with the whole family, don’t fret. You can always start creating them today. Do them for the children. Let these hobbies be your moments that would break the silence and boredom in the home. My husband and I thought that if we raised our three children in California without going out and experiencing nature, our children might never forgive us when they grow up! So we talked about choosing our favorite activities – which included swimming – and then we went to the mall to buy ourselves some suits.

Whether it’s swimming, hiking, or something that’s completely different from our hobbies, find a hobby that everyone in the family can do. It should be something that’s:

 

Accessible. Find activities that are exciting for those of you who are just starting out, but of course, with space to improve and grows – music, craft, and sports are some great examples. We were so happy to be able to have a few laps at the nearby lake, with my youngest completing one. Maybe a few days from now, in our second swim, she’ll be able to make two. There are so much time and space to improve, so we’re not worried at all. Tomorrow we’ll try our hand at hiking and begin with just a few rough roads. Soon, we will challenge ourselves with tougher terrain.

Age-appropriate. The toddlers can start joining the simple kinds of activities while the babies…well, they’ll enjoy themselves in the carriers while mom or dad juggles from one hobby to another. Keep in mind that the hobbies you choose are those that your children will enjoy participating in (or watching, in the case of the babies). I don’t particularly have problems like these because my kids can all join (they’re 15, 11, and 5), but for those who have toddlers and choose swimming as a regular thing, you can always prepare a kiddie pool for them to play and be active as well safely.

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Regular And Consistent. You can also opt for activities that are events – short family getaways, visit different parks, or monthly trips to the carnival. You can make these events a hobby if you do them regularly and consistently – maybe once a week, monthly, or yearly – something that becomes a part of your identity as a family.

Reasonable. A lot of hobbies are so expensive to maintain, so for families with a budget, you can opt for activities that are within your means. However, for hobbies like swimming or hiking, making a more reasonable investment will last you quite some time, like buying a durable pair of hiking shoes or swimwear. After that, you’d only need to take water and some food with you, or perhaps spare a few dollars to order when you’re in a commercial space. Whatever activity you decide to do repeatedly, make sure that it doesn’t go over your means to continue doing it. As for my family, we’ve been thinking about trying out skiing when we move to Colorado, but we also know we’ll have to increase our money bank for our hobbies in order to achieve that.

Make It Enjoyable. Encouraging a younger kid to keep pushing until the finish line won’t be easy, but when he’s told that his favorite flavor of ice cream is ready for him when he gets to the end of the road, he’ll most likely accept the challenge with open arms. And when he becomes really exhausted and almost ready to give up, you can all run with him together, maybe shout words of encouragement or sing upbeat songs to keep him going.

When the children grow up, and ice cream and singing songs won’t be enough motivation for them, perhaps it’ll be great to increase the level up a notch, like promising their long-awaited Disney or an interstate trip to become a reality when school ends finally. Most teens, I would think, will certainly catch that bait. Truly, learning something new and having fun doing it is not impossible at all. And doing it with your beloved family now and in the later years is certainly an awesome incentive.

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Why Is Hiking A Great Hobby?

My whole family is a witness to this – going out to learn and experience nature habitually has done us a lot of good for our mental, physical, and emotional wellness. One good benefit of hikes and long walks with family is more time to talk with each other and improve family relationships. You get to have various conversations about your children’s everyday activities in and out of the house. Thus you learn more about them. It’s also an opportunity to bond with your spouse, spend more quality time together, and strengthen the marital bond. Additionally, the thrill of exploring and reconnecting with nature is never-ending for the whole family. It instills a sense of gratitude, admiration, and respect for God’s creation – values that you, your partner, and the children will definitely benefit from for the rest of your lives.

 

 

 

When To Get Over The COVID-19 Pandemic?

Several months ago, we experienced the unfortunate thing of having virus infection occurrences in a specific part of a country. It was a respiratory virus that internally damages humans by targeting the body’s immune system. The spread went faster that public health measures can no longer contain it. Now, health organizations called it an emergency and declared a pandemic since the virus is now spreading worldwide. And as of this moment, the death toll continues to rise. Thus, everyone is asking the same questions over and over again: When will the world get over with this pandemic? But with all that’s happened, it seemed like it depends on what global governments choose to do next.

The Possible Options

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Herd Immunity

Possibly, a way to get rid of the virus is by getting infected. Yes, perhaps the better way to overcome the pandemic is when communities do nothing to halt the spread of the infection. When people get exposed as quickly as possible, two things can only happen – either they survive or die. Therefore, it will all come down to the process of building up the immune system. It may sound harsh, but it could support medical professionals and pharmaceutical experts in the study.

Since doctors know little about how the virus originates and how to stop it and save their patients, all they can wish for is to control hospitals’ peak capacity. The herd immunity is not-so-ideal. But there is a chance it can save a little of the already collapsing world healthcare systems.

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Delay And Vaccinate

For most people, herd immunity is considerably a brutal process of getting rid of the virus. A way health organizations acted on the spread is by mostly contaminating it so that we can deal with the situation without such a high cost of an individual’s life. Thus, a better way is through delaying the spread. It can help research facilities to study more about the virus and possibly produce a vaccine. Right now, this is the choice of the government that we are all experiencing.

It is a tactic that includes mass testing, quarantine, and physical distancing. But since many people are too stubborn to follow an instant precaution, some maintained their same routines and continued to live their lives the way they used to. Unfortunately, it began to cause a lot of problems because people’s stubbornness led to a rise in the number of infected ones that even cause their virus-related deaths.

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Restrict And Coordinate

The idea of this process is to stop the virus from getting another host everywhere. It is a combination of social distancing, home quarantine, and travel restriction. The flow should follow critically synchronize responses from people all over the world. And when properly coordinated, it might have a chance of stopping the pandemic within a few months with a low loss of life.

However, this method can lead to economic malfunction. Thus, the majority of people will not comply. And even with these measures are in place, there is still a chance that the virus continues to spread regardless of how careful an individual can be. That explains why some cities that thought they already managed to control the outbreak went on the resurgence and return to social distancing protocols.

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We can all expect that within the next several years, there will be a possible vaccine that will become freely available thanks to people’s worldwide efforts. But unless the virus gets eliminated completely, the risk of everyone getting infected is at stake. So whether it is herd immunity, delay and vaccination, and restrict and coordinate, we all need to put on some effort in contributing to what’s best for the world.

How This COVID-19 Pandemic Changes People’s Perspective

This Coronavirus world health issue brings people to the verge of multiple realizations. The situation becomes a window for the people to understand that nothing in this world today is safe. The virus affects every individual regardless of their status, age, sexual orientation, and religious beliefs. There are no exemptions as to who are the ones that should get and not get infected. It is a sad moment for everybody’s lives because the situations trigger anxiety and depression at unexpected levels.

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Now that people live in constant fear where a world tries its best to achieve health safety, the way they see things becomes different. Individuals are far more eager and stubborn. Yes, most people understand the situation. But not all of them are capable of realizing the importance of following rules. Some complain a lot, and others merely do not care. Honestly, you can’t blame them because everyone deals with the situation differently. But what are the top reasons this pandemic changes how people see things?

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Scarcity

An on-point answer to the previous question is scarcity. People complain because of the shortage of resources everywhere. There is not enough supply of food, shelter, and medicines. Even hospitals are out of equipment as well. The worst part of the struggle is that only those individuals who can afford to pay their way out of misery are lucky enough to get everything they need. And those unfortunate people can only wish and pray that they will be able to survive this world crisis without having anything in the table. You see, this is not only about health issues anymore. The whole situation is now consigning everything, including the world economy. There are billions of people in the world that need help. But only a few resources are available. And in some unfortunate cases, those who handle the supplies take more than for themselves.

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Survival

Perhaps you understand that it is wrong to judge people based on what they do because this situation is different. In this time of the pandemic, all are guilty of thinking about their safety. People focus more on saving their lives because they want to survive. We can’t deny the selfishness within each one of us now because it is no use. This pandemic shows us that the true nature of humans depends on their eagerness to stay alive, with or without considerations. No one wants to become a hero at this point because saving thousands of lives will be an impossible battle at this moment. Well, in case some specific persons consider sacrificing their lives for the benefit of the public, then that is an honorable move. But then I assure you that 99% of people will never consider giving up their lives for the survival of the majority. And if you think about the worst that might happen if this pandemic will not end soon, people will quickly kill to continue existence.

 

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Death

Death is the number one unfortunate ending that we all can expect if this situation continues. If you haven’t noticed it, the number of people who continue to die arises. No, perhaps the situation is still under control as of now because there are still safety measures that people can do. But when the time comes that all people start to lose hope, then that is a massive downfall for humanity. Everyone will choose death. Hopefully, it won’t be the end.

No one can say when everything will be over. Hopefully, even though the situation becomes worse every day, people will still stay positive despite all the negativity. I pray that all will have the physical, emotional, and mental courage to fight this pandemic.

How Would You Know If You Are Seeing A Good Therapist?

 

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Your mental condition matters, and as much as possible, you want to get the best help you can get from someone who knows what to do. Since your primary focus is to get the kind of overall development you need, it creates a boundary between a therapist’s approach and knowledge. So if you are currently seeing a counseling professional, it would be a great help to know if he is the right one for you.

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How Social Media Can Ruin Your Relationship 

Being in the loop of the powerful influence of the internet is a good thing. You’ll be able to reach out to friends all over the world and meet different types of people. You don’t need to worry about the things you probably don’t know because you can easily access the web for information.  Everything is available with just a click. 

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